It’s Friday, and you know what that means…
Welcome to Today’s Debate, where we weigh in on the sublime, the ridiculous, and everything in between! It’s been a good week, so let’s get a little deep, y’all. Up for debate today: How do you deal when it comes to confrontation?
Are you a peacemaker or a pot stirrer? Are you comfortable with confrontation? How do you roll when an uncomfortable situation comes your way?
I wish I could say otherwise, but I’m a peacemaker through and through. I literally feel a slight tinge of physical illness when I’m involved in a confrontation (which is almost never, because I avoid them like the plague). I placate and try to keep everyone around me happy so that confrontation just never arises. Do I think it’s healthy? Nope. But there it is.
I know girls on all parts of the spectrum, though. I’ve literally seen girls make up stories right in front of my face to get a rise out of someone or to make another person look bad. I mean, right in front of my face! Just to cause some intrigue or create bad blood. It boggles my mind! I also know a few gals who live in the sweet spot — they don’t seek out confrontation but are able to handle themselves like champs when confrontation finds them. I admire those girls. I always want to be one of those girls.
So which girl are you? Do you crave drama and love seeing it happen? Or do you try to squash confrontation? Peacemaker or pot stirrer, I’d love to hear your stories! xoxo